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Understanding Fantasies

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Understanding fantasies. Do fantasies pacify loneliness or do fantasies make loneliness worse? Is there a difference between fantasies in a healthy relationship and fantasies when you are not in a healthy relationship? Are fantasies a natural function of the brain that automatically occur? The brain is a processor that must remain active, so fantasies may simply be a routine process of an active brain.

Creating unrealistic or improbable mental images may be one aspect of fantasies but inventions are the products of fantasies. Fantasies do not seem to be random as there seems to be a specific focus and course that the fantasy takes. For instance, a solid romance or a planet without turmoil and pollution are fantasies that are not unrealistic or improbable.

Just as understanding dreams gives a person an insight into themselves, understanding what you delight in fantasizing about also gives you a better understanding of yourself. That is just an opinion so do not lay it on your pillow and sleep with it. Fantasizing can be a way to briefly take you out of yourself and your everyday concerns, but it can also be a distraction keeping you from doing the things that you need to do.

Fantasies may address a psychological need, but it does not satisfy it because whatever the lacking is remains there. Someone is standing on a mountain top and scanning the horizon. As far as that someone can see there is a pristine forest. The sky is blue and empty of clouds. The temperature is moderate and there is a slight breeze. Surrounded by such peace and beauty, does someone need to fantasize?

Someone is sitting alone in a room. The clock has moved into another day. Sleep is as far away from this someone as the early morning hours of yesterday. Every tick of the clock on the wall sounds like an explosion into eternity. If given the chance this someone will recap all their past mistakes until a feeling of depression sets in. Can this someone afford the luxury of fantasizing under the circumstances?

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Fantasizing may be harmless when you are not fantasizing about a specific person if you keep the fantasy abstract and impersonal. If this is your fantasizing technique it is unlikely to cause anyone else harm. The detail of a fantasy is like a breath of air that comes and goes while the essence of the fantasy may remain intact. It is like putting different actors in the same play using the same script. The camera is rolling, and the sound equipment properly adjusted for the next scene in the fantasy that will take place.

Understanding fantasies is a part of understanding your inner self and how you interact with this illusion called life and the certainty of your death. A frog is reminiscing near a pond about the things that its great grand frog told it. Of how clean the water used to be even when it was muddy. Of how there was an abundance of creatures that bathe and drink from it. Of how the rainwater that fell into it used to be nourishing. Of how the Indigenous people laughed and sang as they camped by the ponds bank. And now it has come to this.

Fantasizing may be a temporary way of escaping reality and a fantasy may become a reality. As with everything there is a good side and there is a bad side to fantasizing. The deeper one gets into trying to understand the nature of fantasies the better one becomes in developing an undisruptive and nontoxic way of daydreaming.

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I live my life with vivid dreams of you

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I live my life with vivid dreams of you, and if only my vivid dreams of you will come true. In my dreams of you I find peace and contentment. A peace and a contentment that only comes with the thoughts of you. As close as they are and as far away as they are, the reality of my visions places me next to you. Close beside you, even as close beside you as touching me.

My vivid dreams of being with you are dreams that I hope will come true. As true as holding you in my arms and as real as a soft kiss to your palms. Is it possible that you may feel the same as I do? That you dream of being close to me as I dream of being close to you. If this is so, then let both of our dreams come true. Let both of our dreams become a kiss in the dark, and bright and shining eyes in the sunlight.

My life is as empty of substance as it is filled with the hope of a relationship with you. You’re caring for me is the substance that fills an empty life and brings hope to a rewarding maturity. A rewarding maturity that brings hope to life in a fixed place that cannot be shaken, and bends only far enough whereas not to be broken.

I have no secrets that cannot be clearly explained, and I have no thoughts of you that should cause me any shame. My respect for you as a person and as a woman is beyond reproach. As pristine as the galaxies orbiting within the blanket of space. As nourishing and caressing as the life-giving stars. As pure as a whisper of love into your ear. As faultless as my dreams of having you nearby.

Criticize me if you like for wanting the best. Judge me for more or for less for dreaming grandiose dreams and having lavish visions of whom I consider to be the perfect one. The perfect one for me in intelligence, looks, and figure. The one in whom I feel so relaxed and comfortable in her company. The one whose conversation is engaging and entertaining. The one whose smile makes love to me. Say whatever you may as I take her hand and we walk away into the sunlight of our divine.


My vivid dreams may be ambitious but the one I am dreaming of is very impressive aspiring me to obtain the cradle of my heart. An aspirant without delusion. A want to be without confusion. A wishful at the beckoning of her finger. A falling to the knees kissing her in prolonged intimacy. A reason to put aside believing and live in the confidence of knowing.

Rest quietly with pleasant thoughts whether asleep or awake. The moment is coming when loneliness is broken, and fulfillment will appear in dazzling splendor. The soft deliberate steps approaching is the end of dreaming and the beginning of ecstasy in the heavenly realms of her companionship. And this will be so until the stars blank away into nothingness.

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What do I call them?

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What do I call them since they are no longer women or females? I suppose anything that comes to mind. Under the current trend men and animated hardware are systematically replacing them, so what should I call them. I suppose that I will call them anything that seems appropriate in my mind at the time.

Whatever they are now, a growing number of them are convinced that they do not have the slightest clue as to what they are, so who am I to question the current fad? Even those who have given birth to a child are woefully in the dark concerning their biological nature. How can someone allow themselves to be so whitewashed and brainwashed is beyond me.

The United States is the primary agent of this growing assault on whatever you now choose to call them. Just as the United States have been and still is the primary agent in spreading the fear and hatred of so-called Black men around the world. European males have always felt threatened and insecure about their women which is why they have sought so hard to dominate them. So, this new trend is only their latest efforts to diminish the status of those who make them feel vulnerable.

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Do I call them by name, or do I call them by anything, seeing that they are neither this nor that now? I will call them a biological entity soon to become extinct and an active participant in their own demise. The first born should not participate in the distortion and the destruction of life. The first born should grow beyond the servile mind and be strong and creative again. The past is wonderful but the present and the future are more important for the stability of the planet and the cosmos.

What should I call those who are floating in the current bubble since the mob restricts what I can say to predefined and acceptable pronouns? I will say that silence is a despot’s solace and loudness accomplish nothing in the long term. How long will the crowd applaud without understanding the plot of the play? When will the mind prevail over bad manners? This will only happen when the first-born overthrow those who currently control and influence the world, only then can positive changes come about.

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Eyes of paradise as soft as the night.


Eyes of heaven as delicate as the evening. How I long for you to come into my life. Who am I to wish for you, though? The reality of my fantasies of holding you is so far away. My dreams of strolling hand in hand with you are just daydreams in my psyche.

However, I feel solace in the distant authenticity of my fantasies and find harmony of psyche in my clear imaginings of you. Lips of composition as welcoming as the closeness of a kiss. I long for the friendship of one who is so dear to me. Nevertheless, why should I go after the most brilliant star lighting the sky?

My considerations of you are a safeguard that shields you from all mischief that stands up to you. With strength and force, I safeguard you from harm and maltreatment. I honor your strong will and intellect with respect. With euphoria I wash myself in your consideration. Yet, why should I swim in a precious crystal stream and drink the sweet waters of your wonderful virtue? My heart liquefies into your smile with the best of glimmers having all joy to get and all happiness to acquire inside the glow of a grin so delicate and light.

Show me how to talk in a manner to really speak with you. So that we can move beyond the realm of conversation and into the realm of clarity and comprehension by telling you the things I want you to know in a pleasant melody. I request these things from you from the heights and from the depths of my heart.

Jewel of sensuous delight take hold of me and cradle me within your closeness. Treat me as if I am a fine fabric embracing your most delicate parts. Throw me to the ground and consume me like a meal dressed for eating. Say my name in a voice that conveys the wealth of your affections for me. Make love to me until I pass out in total bliss. If I am asking too much of you do not stress, just do as you will with me as thoroughly as you may.


Why am I saying all these things? I am pouring out my heart and mind to you because I adore you. I am not whispering nor am I being evasive because I want you to understand me plainly. I know that I am asking a great deal of you, but you are a magnificent amount to ask for, so what can I do except be true to my feelings for you. Eyes of paradise as soft as the twilight, the ardent appearance of your legs and thighs makes me want to fiddle as Rome burns in the night.

I am being true to myself which I am determined to be so with you. The light in my eyes is not a reflection of a vague mirroring of what I want our companionship to be but is the radiance and glow of having a wholesome relationship with you that is as genuine as genuine can be. My desire for you is sincere and just and is unfiltered as possible with all decency and integrity. Wrap your legs around my head to the fullest degree of respiration so that I may breathe freely in the jovialness that you provide me.

Esteemed of my most reverent admiration and loveliest whisper, I am at my wits end to properly convey my heartfelt message to you. Help me to sing a song of love to you. Instruct me as to how I may endear myself to you. Let none of my words to you be in vain but be fruitful and prosperous in winning you over.

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One touch is too much


One touch is too much, and one touch is not enough as I plea for mercy under the captivation of total surrender. Captivation that plummets me into the celestial sphere of completeness. Little did I know that the sight seen could be so exquisite or words not spoken could convey so much meaning. One day is not like another and a moment in time can seem to last for a wonderful eternity. How can I explain the magnitude of beloved and elucidate adored that is gift wrapped in cherished.

Once there was a sound of much weeping surrounding the planet Earth and now those cries of weeping have been replaced by the shouts for vengeance. Reprisal and retaliation for all the innocent blood that has been spilled by those whose arrogance and conceit caused them to do horrendous things to other people on behalf of their god and the flawed superiority of their race. The sheet is over the heads of those who lurk in shadows and an animalistic throng is whipped up into a frenzy of madness.

Set apart for caressing and hugging the just right is nearer to my heart than my heart is to me. The air that I breathe is fragranced by an exhale from a strong magnetism that invigorates my desires for life. A refreshment stimulated by a soothing appearance and a calm nature fills the air with so many delightful melodies. Melodies that sing and dance within every caring and loving element of my consciousness. A fragment of a morsel is a full meal that can never be polished off in one dining. And perhaps a zillion dining will produce a satisfied burp with a complimentary break of wind.


The ghosts of multitudes of bodies hanging from trees are arrayed for battle awaiting their marching orders. All the animals that have been and are still being needlessly slaughtered have developed ravenous and terrifying fangs and claws in support of their insatiable appetites for those who hunt for sport.

The atmosphere is tempestuous in retaliation for all the atomic and nuclear bombs that have exploded into it. Nature will tame those who sought to tame it in their vanity of self-importance. The meek will fall by the elephant gun and the strong will die of starvation when the spirits wreak havoc upon the complacent, self-righteous, and self-satisfied.

On a summer’s day the winter snow blankets the landscape for miles in every direction. Forming from the snow a body appears. A body appears from the snow blanketing the landscape in every direction on a summer’s day. The sun is shining brightly, a pleasant breeze is softly flowing, the leaves are joyously swaying back and forth in the trees. The leaves are blissfully undulating in the trees, the wind is fluttering with a velvety kiss to the skin, the sun is reassuring and radiant in its luminosity as winter snow carpets the terrain as far as the mind can conceive on a summer’s day.

From the snow a body is forming. modeling out of the snow a translucent body takes shape on a summer’s day where the leaves in the trees are lusciously humming, the air is cradled inside a revitalizing breeze, the rays of the sun are energizing to the life-force on a summer’s day quilted in snow that covers the terrain as far as a thought can reach. And engrossing that body are all the coziness of home.

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On the other side of this or that

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On the other side of this or that, may or may not contain the fulfillment of my dreams.

Dreams on the other side of this or that, not borne out in this sphere of reality.

Dreams that I experience as I hear the beat of my heart ringing in my ears.

Ringing in my ears that reminds me of how ever present is the last beat of my heart.

So loud is the sound of the finite that carries the night and so disguised as sleep is the ringing in my ears.

On the outer parts of nowhere I reside within the captivity of a breath of air.

A single breath of air that separates the present and past tense of my being.

When will the morning come where other sounds will drown out the beat of my heart that is ringing in my ears?

Within the inner most parts of my mortality dwell the contour of the worms.

Worms eating away at my lifelessness and gorging themselves on my rot and decay.

On the other side of this or that, her soft but firm voice is my inherency.

Contained within the may or may not be, is her smile endowed just for me.

The days soar like a bird in flight.

The night roars like a lion about to devour its prey.

Beat after beat ringing in my ears constantly reminding me that the flame of the cremator is nearby.


Pull up your trousers, you drop-pants and behave like an adult person.

No one wants to see your backside in the limelight but the articulation of an inventive mind.

The child desperately wants to be seen and heard, and always in the wrong way.

On the other side of this and within the deepest regions of that, may or may not be the realization of my dreams.

Dreams of self-realization, happiness, completion, and her arms lovingly embracing me.

Hammering and pounding the life out of my life on the thrashing floor.

Blending and stirring the finite with the unknown.

The day is here; the day is gone, and the longing is still alone.

The sound of my heart beating in my ears letting me know just how fragile life is.

In the approaching future, I see no practical future expect my absorption into dust in the looming valley of the nonentity.

The nonentity that I have been since the moment of my conception in an inhospitable house.

On the other side of this or that, awaits rest from the incessant ringing in my ears of the beating of my heart.

This I have hope as the hostile becomes aloof within the cold confines of my decease and demise.

The constant ringing in my ears is overpowered by the howl of nothingness in this reality of silhouettes and shades.

Silhouettes and shades of never hearing her call my name or delighting in the warmth and softness of her touch.

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Tick by unremitting tick, time yells at me to crash dive into the gulf of the abyss.

What is the rush; the deep hole is my birthday present from the instance of my conception.

And the beat of my heart is the wrapping paper of my gift incessantly peeling away.

No afterlife, no paradise, no kiss from her lips.

And no more sound of my heart beating ringing in my ears.

On the other side of this or that, may or may not contain the fulfillment of my dreams.

Maybe, and perhaps not.

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Interpreting your dreams by analyzing your life experiences


Analyzing your life experiences

Analyzing your life experiences can be a helpful approach when interpreting your dreams. By examining your personal history, emotions, and significant events, you can gain a deeper understanding of the possible meanings behind your dream symbols and narratives. Here are some steps you can follow:

  1. Keep a dream journal: Start by recording your dreams immediately after waking up. Include as many details as possible, such as people, places, objects, and emotions you experienced in the dream.
  2. Identify recurring themes and symbols: Look for patterns or symbols that appear frequently in your dreams. Pay attention to objects, people, animals, or situations that repeat across different dreams.
  3. Connect with your emotions: Reflect on the emotions you felt during the dream and see if they relate to any current or past events in your life. Consider how these emotions may be linked to your waking life experiences and your emotional state.
  4. Consider personal associations: Think about your personal associations with the symbols in your dream. For example, if you dream of a cat, what does a cat mean to you personally? It could represent independence, mystery, or something entirely different based on your experiences and cultural background.
  5. Explore underlying conflicts or desires: Dreams often reflect our unconscious thoughts, conflicts, and desires. Analyze the narrative of your dream and try to uncover any hidden messages or unresolved issues that may be surfacing.
  6. Look for connections to waking life events: Consider any recent or significant events in your life that might be connected to your dreams. Your dreams may provide insights or alternative perspectives on these events.
  7. Seek professional guidance if needed: If you’re struggling to interpret your dreams or if they consistently cause distress, consider consulting with a professional, such as a psychologist or therapist, who specializes in dream analysis or psychotherapy.

Remember that dream interpretation is highly subjective, and the most important aspect is finding meaning that resonates with you personally. Trust your intuition and use your own insights to make sense of your dreams.

Common dream themes and symbols

Dreams can contain a wide variety of themes and symbols, and their meanings can vary depending on the individual and their personal experiences.

Remember that these interpretations are general guidelines, and the context of the dream and the dreamer’s personal associations play a crucial role in understanding the symbols. It’s essential to consider your own feelings, experiences, and cultural background when interpreting your dreams.

Here are some common themes and symbols that often appear in dreams:

  1. Flying: Represents freedom, liberation, or a desire to escape from a situation.
  2. Falling: Symbolizes a loss of control, fear, or a lack of support in waking life.
  3. Water: Can represent emotions, the unconscious mind, or the flow of life. Calm water may indicate tranquility, while turbulent water may signify emotional turmoil.
  4. Animals: Different animals carry various symbolic meanings. For example, a cat can represent independence or mystery, while a dog may symbolize loyalty or protection.
  5. Teeth: Often associated with concerns about appearance, communication, or feeling vulnerable.
  6. Death: Symbolizes the end of a phase or transformation rather than literal death. It can represent personal growth, change, or the need to let go of the past.
  7. Chasing: Represents a pursuit or fear of something in waking life, such as ambitions, relationships, or unresolved issues.
  8. Being naked: Signifies vulnerability, self-consciousness, or the fear of being exposed.
  9. Houses: Symbolize the self and different aspects of the dreamer’s personality or life. Different rooms may represent different emotions or areas of life.
  10. Vehicles: Represent the journey through life. The condition and control of the vehicle can reflect the dreamer’s sense of control and direction.
  11. People: Often reflect aspects of the dreamer’s own personality, desires, or relationships. Pay attention to how you feel and interact with the people in your dreams.
  12. Mirrors: Symbolize self-reflection, self-image, or the need to examine oneself and gain insight into personal identity.

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Dream Creation


Dream creation, also known as dream manipulation or lucid dreaming, refers to the ability to consciously control or influence the content and events that occur in dreams. While dreams are typically spontaneous and unpredictable, some individuals have developed techniques to enhance their awareness and control during the dreaming state.

Here are a few methods that can help with dream creation or lucid dreaming:

1. Reality checks: Perform reality checks throughout your waking hours by questioning whether you are dreaming or awake. This habit will carry over into your dreams, increasing the likelihood of becoming lucid when something unusual occurs.

2. Dream journaling: Keep a dream journal by your bedside and record your dreams as soon as you wake up. This practice improves dream recall and trains your mind to pay more attention to the dream world.

3. MILD (Mnemonic Induction of Lucid Dreams): Before falling asleep, repeat a mantra or affirmation such as “I will have a lucid dream” or “I will remember my dreams.” Visualize yourself becoming aware in a dream and actively participating in it.

4. WBTB (Wake-Back-to-Bed) technique: Set an alarm to wake up after 4-6 hours of sleep. Stay awake for a short period (around 30 minutes) and engage in activities that promote wakefulness, such as reading about lucid dreaming or practicing visualization. Then go back to sleep with the intention of having a lucid dream.

5. Reality testing in dreams: Once you become lucid in a dream, perform reality checks to affirm that you are dreaming. Common reality checks include looking at your hands, trying to push your finger through your palm, or observing the behavior of objects in the dream environment.

6. Visualization and intention: Before falling asleep, imagine the dream scenario you wish to experience or create. Visualize it vividly and set a clear intention to encounter it in your dream.

7. Dream supplements and technology: Some individuals explore the use of certain supplements like galantamine or supplements that support dream vividness, as well as devices like lucid dreaming masks that detect REM sleep and provide cues to promote lucidity.

Remember that achieving lucid dreams and controlling dream content can take practice and patience. It’s important to approach the process with a relaxed and open mindset. Lucid dreaming can be an exciting and transformative experience, offering opportunities for self-exploration, creativity, and even problem-solving within the realm of dreams.

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